Sex on the First Date

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There used to be a time when there were set standards for dating- don’t call her right after a first date, wait three dates before sex, blah, blah, blah. It’s finally come to a time where people realize that the question “how long should you wait before having sex?” is practically like asking “how long is a piece of string?” in that there is no right answer.

Sex on the first date, though, is tricky. Some guys say they lose respect for a girl if she goes “all the way” on the first date, and some women feel offended if a guy even tries. To make a judgement call on either part isn’t really appropriate, because everyone views sex differently. For example, on sites like AdultFriendFinder, you’ll probably find a date who assumes sex with happen… But if you meet on BigChurch, that will probably not be the case. The only way to really decide if it’s okay is if you both feel comfortable with the idea.

If maybe you had one too many drinks and you slept with your date when you truly planned on waiting, that’s okay. The last thing you want to say, though, is “I don’t usually do this.” Even if its true, it comes off sounding more like “I do this, and then say this, all the time.” You guys had a fun date, and things got steamy, there is nothing wrong with it. Laugh it off, because if anything, you got a great date, some between-the-sheets fun, and never had to deal with the awkwardness of “the first time.”