We’ve all been there: in a great relationship, everything is wonderful, you love each other and think you’ll be together forever. And then out of nowhere, someone catches your eye; perhaps at a bar, a party, or at work, and all of a sudden you find yourself thinking about them instead of your partner. And if this mysterious someone happens to be interested in you too, well then… now we have a problem.

There is nothing to be ashamed of, because this happens to everyone. But before you decide to start an affair, it is important to step back and honestly assess the situation. Ask yourself this one question:

Are you happy in your relationship? If you are truly happy, and lusting after someone else is purely a physical reaction, you should seriously think about if it’s worth it to you to have to have an affair. You’ll be forced to sneak around,  continually lie to your partner, and potentially get caught, just for one night of steamy sex. Instead, maybe consider spicing things up in your relationship instead! There are stores, books, websites, and magazines all dedicated to making peoples’ sex lives more exciting and new, so try that before you seek “outside assistance.” Plus, there is always a chance that you will have absolutely no chemistry with the person you are lusting after. Once the excitement of forbidden sex is over, you might realize that he is a huge jerk, or that she is a demanding princess. The regret you’ll feel for cheating is far more painful than any pleasure you’ll get out of a one-night stand.

However, if you realize that the answer to “Am I happy?” is no, perhaps it’s time to end your relationship. Maybe you aren’t in love anymore, but at one time, you loved your partner, and you should do them the courtesy of letting them go, instead of lying to them. It’s not really fair to either of you to be caught in a love triangle. If you are really interested in no-strings-attached, anonymous sex, break it off, and get yourself over to Adult Friend Finder or Online Booty Call. These sites are the ultimate place for singles to experience a great hook up without the commitment.

However, if you’re just really craving a scandalousl hook-up, while staying in your current relationship, Miss Ashley Madison has just what you need. Head over and they will set you up with someone right away. As their headline states, “Life is Short, Have an Affair…“

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If true, however, it is incredibly unhealthy and unsafe for a guy with multiple partners (one of which is his wife) to be practicing unprotected sex. Especially considering he was endangering the safety of his wife, and potentially his children. As Jaimee Grubbs’ mother so eloquently put it, “I was so worried she might get a disease… I suspected he was promiscuous.”

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With a motto like “Life is short. Have an affair,” it’s quite apparent what the Ashley Madison Online Dating Agency is looking to do.  Are you married, and looking for an extramarital tryst? Or are you single and looking to hook up with someone who’s married, perhaps for an exciting fling? Well then, AshleyMadison is the place for you.

With few bells and whistles, AshleyMadison is a simple, uncluttered  site that gets down to business with few distracting links or ads. Instead of monthly memberships, it uses credits, almost like a pay-as-you-go system, so you only pay for what you use. This method is key for an agency like AshleyMadison, considering most members probably won’t be having monthly affairs (Or maybe they are. I’m lookin’ at you, Tiger Woods) .

Searching is simple, as you can easily filter what kind of person you’re looking for, whether they be single or married, or by location. All communication is for the sole intention of meeting in person, so the user doesn’t deal with the usual pointless flirting that happens on other sites.

The only misstep by AshleyMadison is the constant pestering for a “100% Affair Guaranteed” membership. At about $300, it promises you an affair, but only if you follow their strict guidelines, which include sending messages, gifts, and chatting a certain number of times per month.

Other than this slight annoyance, Ashley Madison is great site for finding a hookup in a less than conventional manner. It may be the best bang for your buck, no pun intended .