OnlineBootyCall.com, the world’s premier casual dating site, has always been known for their ability to turn the sometimes-too-serious world of online dating on its head. One of the most successful ways they’ve done this was with their release of the “Booty Call Commandments” back in 2007. With rules like, “Thou shalt get out before the sun rises,” and “thou shalt kiss anything but my mouth,” they showed a fun alternative to more mainstream sites assumption that all dating should be serious, monogamous, and forever.

Recently, the team behind OBC decided to revamp the site with a whole new streamlined look, and thought that using the booty call commandments as a cornerstone would be the perfect way to remind its members (as well as potential ones) of the rules of casual dating in a fun tongue-in-cheek way. Not only will new members cycle through them during the sign up process, but returning users can remind themselves anytime by visiting the Booty Call Commandments page here!

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If you’re a guy who’s not looking for a relationship, but who would love to have a fun night with a girl who isn’t crazy, clingy, or needy, there are certain girls you know you should avoid. They’re gossipy, overly-concerned with their looks, and probably have those crazy eyes that say, “I WANT BABIES.” However, how is one to spot a girl who isn’t nuts- who wants to have fun and possibly hookup, but isn’t looking to torment you with demands of commitment? Here are some easy signs to show that she is in it for fun, not stress.

1) At a party or bar, she’s independent and down to talk to anyone, and she isn’t in a hive of women obviously gossiping about every guy or girl in the bar.

2) She’s attractive and confident, but isn’t dressed like a hooker. You can tell she takes care of herself but doesn’t think wearing a mini-skirt and stillettos is the only way to attract a guy.

3) She doesn’t play games. You can tell when a woman is trying to use her female mind tricks to reel you in. The girl you’re looking for is honest and will tell you what she wants.

4) She doesn’t let any guy hit on her, but she isn’t rude. There are often two strains of women. Those who will let any guy talk her up just for a confidence boost, and those who will reject any guy who even says hi, assuming they’re trying to sleep with her. The girl you’re looking for is right in the middle, discerning, but kind.

5)  She isn’t falling over herself drunk. If you’re looking for fun girl to hook up with and potentially casually date, don’t pick the girl who’s sloppily spilling beer on herself or whose eyes are half closed. Not only will you feel bad hooking up with her, but she’s probably a bit of a mess anyway.

If you’re out and about looking for a casual partner, and you’ve opted to try the bar scene instead of sites like OBC or AdultFriendFinder, you’re going to have a hard time scoping out a woman who isn’t nuts or just… well, a floozy. So be careful, and good luck!

San Diego, CA April 1, 2010

OnlineBootyCall.com , the world’s premier casual dating website, announced today that it has been acquired by an online dating industry leader and will be expanding operations internationally. The undisclosed acquirer, a major player in the personality profiling dating space, is looking to broaden its offerings into the casual market and plan to invest heavily in the global expansion of the site. The acquiring company CEO stated, “this is the perfect harmony for us.”

Read the rest here to learn more about the acquisition.

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Urban dictionary has two definitions for the Player Hater:

1. An intelligent person who hates ’sluts’ and ‘players’ because he or she views them as the scum of the earth. These types are not commonly ‘jealous’, just disgusted by stupidity. Will sometimes ruin their ‘game’ out of spite and/or distaste for pure idiocy.

2. A lowlife idiot who actually is jealous of players success. This is even more stupid than the ‘players’ themselves, because it involves coveting something utterly worthless.

These definitions are, by no means, black and white, because both show resentment for the “player”. While one definition exalts the player hater as a member of the moral elite, who only “hates” because he knows the player is wrong, the other calls the player hater a “lowlife idiot” for coveting what the player has.

Either way, the player themself remains as an anomaly, something undefinable. Is a player a stain on the fabric of society for his polygamous nature? Or is he (or she) just a next step in human sexual evolution- fully capable of having casual relationships without the responsibility and restrictions of exclusivity?

No matter what your definition of the player or player hater, one truth remains of the hater: they are far too concerned with the actions of others and should probably take a hard look at themselves before judging others.

If you find yourself enjoying a non-committal lifestyle, having fun with casual dating and not falling prey to the traditional view of relationships, and a “player-hater” tries to stomp on your game, the only real thing to do is ignore it. The truth is they are either a) jealous, b) closed-minded, or c) bored with their own monotonous lifestyles. Don’t fight, don’t try and argue, just smile and go on with your life. Associate with others who have the same vision as you, on sites like LavaLife or MetroDate.

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Once you’ve gotten to the point where you realize you’ve been dating a player, and you want to get a little payback for the time you wasted, there are a few ways to end the relationship that will give you closure and let you have a little fun. While we don’t condone trying to get “revenge” per se, a little taste of their own medicine is something the Player could really use.

1. Turn off your phone for a couple days

If the Player used to you being available anytime, it’s time that you give them a little shock therapy. By immediately ignoring their calls (or turning your phone off all together if you’re really daring), you’re showing them that you aren’t hanging on their every word. After a few days, answer a call and be casual. If they ask where you’ve been, just say you’ve been busy. It’s time you show them you’re moving on.

2. Go on a date with someone else

By making an effort to move on, you’ll help yourself (and the Player) realize that the dependency you may have had earlier is just mental. If they happen to run into you while your out having a blast, then that’s just a bonus!

3. Do NOT give into the booty call

Even though you might know you two have sexual chemistry, the awkward day after and your likely guilt will not be worth it. If you’re libido is on a fast train to disaster, though, try out a site like AdultFriendFinder. That way, your needs can be satisfied without giving in to the player’s advances.

4. Keep things casual

If you do end up going out with the Player again, keep your guard up and don’t let them try and seduce you like they’ve done before. Be social and nice, but don’t get all googly-eyed over them. And if you happen to see someone that catches your eye, don’t hold in the desire to check them out. The Player is notorious for the wandering eye, and now you can be too!

5. If you want to keep them around, keep your emotions in check.

Life is short, and sex is fun. There is nothing wrong with dating a player if you don’t get attached and are safe about it. They can be romantic and exciting to date, so if you’re alright casually seeing them, then go for it. Just make sure you don’t fall for them and practice safe sex.

The Definition:

What is a Booty call? While today’s definitions of this term may vary from humorous to more serious in nature, one thing is clear: Booty calls and the act of booty calling have definitely infiltrated the cultural zeitgeist and haves become a term that is known to people of all ages.

Starting as a slang term coined in the 1990s, booty calls as a concept have evolved over the past two decades.

The History of a Booty Call:

The term ‘booty call’ is believed to have been officially coined in the early 1990’s by a series of comedians, rappers, and writers who used the term to describe a specific encounter – literally picking up the phone, calling someone you’d like to see that night/early morning for one thing and one thing only: booty. No strings attached.

However, through the years, the term has clearly changed. Shadowing the cultural changes that have taken place over the past two decades, the term has evolved and changed to include an expanded definition.

Modern day booty calls:

Today, booty calls mean something more. No longer only about sex, booty calls today truly mean an encounter of your choice. The key is connecting with someone with similar interests without having any unrealistic expectations. The Millennials have had quite a bit to do with this trend. Generational and pop culture trends are also showing that Gen X and Y are taking a “marriage can wait” approach and are settling down later in life, embracing the freedom they have now. Women have embraced the term thanks to television’s sexually empowered characters like Samantha Jones in Sex & the City, who’ve made it socially acceptable to be open and forthright about fulfilling one’s sexual needs. And men, well, men are usually down for anything!

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This ever-so-popular relationship term can be hard to concretely define due to the fact that it is established and maintained on many varying degrees. Depending on the expectations of the two people involved, a casual dating relationship can mean a number of different things. However, in general the term defines a physical and emotional relationship that exists between two people who do not necessarily demand or expect anything too formal from each other. The primary purpose of casual dating is to determine what, if any, type of relationship will develop from meeting and getting to know someone. If something casual does blossom into a more serious and committed relationship, then great. If not, and it just fizzles down over time, then that’s OK too. It’s all about the experience and not the final outcome.

Casual dating is for people who have the intention of getting to know each other better without having to make any specific commitments or promises. It gives individuals the opportunity to test the water before diving head first into a committed relationship.

Casual dating is a crucial component in figuring out what you want and need in a relationship. In giving yourself the opportunity to date around, you open your eyes to the qualities and characteristics that you feel are important for a potential significant other to posses. It’s a great learning experience and allows you to establish independence and confidence in yourself as an individual. Plus, casual dating can be so much fun! It’s a time in your life when you can embrace your selfish side and not feel guilty about it. You have the freedom to set your own boundaries and to make your own decisions based on whats best for you!

So, get out there and have some fun exploring your options!

Online Booty Call is the #1 ranked casual dating site with millions of members and thousands joining daily. They have a list of “Booty Call Commandments” that includes “Thou shalt get out before the sun rises,” pretty classic stuff.

Some people assume this website is about prostitution or escorts or something, but that is not the case. What you find on OBC is thousands of young people looking to hook up with no strings attached. Like one of their mottos says, “Don’t promise marriage just to get a date!”

OnlineBootyCall.com is not as corporate as some other major dating websites, and that attitude reflects in its fun and friendly website. It’s a casual dating website for casual singles. Technically, the site isn’t 100% free dating but it might as well be at a cost of only 16 cents per day!