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Meeting the parents is a well-known nerve-wracking event. Whether it’s your parents or theirs, the prospect of embarrassment, awkwardness, or general dislike is enough to heighten your blood pressure and cause you to sweat like a murderer on trial. However, what is less analyzed but almost as bad is meeting your mate’s friends for the first time. Like parents, they are protective, judgmental, and probably have enough “inside” stories to make you feel like the ultimate outsider.

Unlike parents, though, they don’t have the obligation to be polite adults. They will probably have no qualms about making you feel extremely uncomfortable, whether by sharing their friend’s sexual exploits or telling you about the time they got a ticket for peeing on a fence.

When meeting your boy or girlfriend’s friends, it is important to be friendly and sociable without being overly abrasive. You want your partner’s friends to get to know you, but you shouldn’t be quite as open or candid as you might be in private. When entering a new group of friends, you have to realize they already have a modus operandi, and would probably be a little more than irritated if you came in and tried to take over the conversation.

On the other hand, if you sit in a corner all night texting and barely paying attention, you’ll come off cold, not to mention plain rude.

A good rule of thumb is to maintain eye contact and a smile, but don’t interject too much unless people are asking you a question. It might seem harsh, but at least for the first time you meet, it’s more important to learn as much about their personalities, likes, and dislikes as you can, while offering just a bit about yourself.

With a good first meeting, you can be sure your significant other’s friends will be interested in meeting you again. That’s when you can let your best Yoda impression loose, but not until then. ;)

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Some people have a sixth sense about break-ups. They can just feel them coming, similar to how certain animals can sense earthquakes or tornadoes. For the rest of us painfully oblivious people in the world, here is DatePro’s list of signs your mate might show if the  relationship is about to end.
1. Being distant, uninterested

This trait, as with all the others on this list, isn’t always a sure sign you’re about to get dumped. This one, for example, could be tied to something stressful, maybe they’re worried about their job or just swamped with to much to do in general. However, often times before a break up you will notice that your partner seems to be staring off into space, not paying much attention to you, or looking like thy have something on their mind that they want to talk about but don’t. Ask what’s wrong, or it may come as a shock when they drop the bomb.

2. Lack of sex-drive

Once again, can always be stress related. Sometimes, though, when a person has asserted themselves to breaking up with their boy or girlfriend, they’ll begin to pull away sexually as well as emotionally. If you notice them being especially shy or uninterested in sex altogether, this may be a sign that in fact they’ve already broken up with you in their mind, and are just garnering the courage to do it in person. In fact, they might even have moved on sexually, perhaps to AshleyMadison, where people in committed relationships sign up to have flings.

3. Their friends won’t talk to you

On a normal night with you, your mate, and their friends, everyone is sociable and fun, but recently you’ve noticed they shrug off your conversation or ignore you completely. This is one of the key signs that they already know you’re about to get broken up with. Unfortunately you will not be getting any information out of them, because they’re on the “opposing team,” so to speak. You might want to confront your partner about this, noting their friends change in behavior.

4. They start bringing their stuff home from your place

Maybe it’s just a bout of spring cleaning, but if most of their clothing disappears and the little things, toothbrushes, hair ties, random socks or a pizza cutter, mysteriously end up back at their apartment, they maybe be clearing things out so they’ll have nothing to retrieve after they dump you.

5. You don’t fight anymore

It might seem like a good sign at first, your normally stubborn mate has finally started dropping the stupid arguments and petty fights. But in reality, this isn’t good: if they’ve started to care so little about the relationship that they won’t even bother to argue with you about something they’re normally passionate about, it means they don’t care to put any effort into your relationship, and thus, it may be over.

Don’t take each of these points to heart individually, as there are many outside reasons a person might start acting this way. However, a few of them coupled together and you have a reason to sit your partner down and really ask them: is this over?

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It’s always difficult to know how to act towards an ex after you break up. When you are used to being so involved in someone’s life, it’s a serious challenge knowing where and how you fit in it post break up. As great as it would be to effortlessly jump from a romantic relationship into a platonic friendship with your ex, this never happens without complications. When deciding whether to remain friends or just burn your bridges, you need to consider several critical issues.

First of all, how did the break up go down? Was is a mutual thing or was it a one-sided decision? Did the two of you simply grow apart and want different things or did someone make a mistake that was unforgivable? Unfortunately, relationships are complicated and breakups even more so. No two breakups are ever the same, that’s why there is never one “correct” way to approach your ex. For example, if your relationship ended because you cheated on your significant other, then they will probably have a lot of animosity towards you and will want to cut you out of their life. On the other hand, if your relationship slowly fizzled and you mutually agreed to to break up, then the whole friendship thing might be a plausible option.

The best approach is to feel out the situation and realistically determine where you stand in terms of your feelings and emotions. In most breakup situations, it takes time to heal any hurt, confusion, or frustration that you or your ex may be experiencing. There is rarely a clean break when it comes to ending relationships and it’s never easy to let go of someone that was a prevalent part of your life. However, it’s important to be honest with yourself and figure out what you truly want to gain or lose from the breakup. If you think you could have a future with this person but the timing is just off, then it might be wise for you to try and maintain a friendship with them just in case something were to develop later on. On the other hand, if you honestly know you have no feelings left for this person and are totally checked out, it might be best to make the cleanest cut possible and burn the bridge, at least for the time being.

When a relationship ends, it is rarely completely mutual; one person is likely to want something more or different than the other. This is where things can get complicated because if one person wants a friendship but the other wants more, someone is likely to be misled. As hard as it may be to walk away from someone you loved or cared greatly for, sometimes that is the best possible thing you can do. In order for people to heal, grow, and move on from a break up, time and space is essential. While you may feel that you are burning a bridge, in reality you are just putting your and your ex’s best interest at heart by choosing to let time take its course. Down the road, you may be able to establish a friendship with this person again, and this time it wont be flooded with confusing emotions.

Whatever choice you make, whether it be to remain friends or to burn bridges, just remember that life has a time and place for everything. Whether you are aware of it or not, when someone leaves your life it is because another opportunity is entering it. Always be honest and upfront with your feelings and make the best possible decision for the future of both yourself and your ex.